Another key principal is that of
giving, or "outflowing." The universe is made up of pure energy, the
nature of which is to move and flow. The nature of life is constant
change, constant flux. When we understand this, we tune into its rhythm
and we are able to give and receive freely, knowing that we never really
lose anything, but constantly gain.
Once we begin to learn to accept
the goodness of the universe,
we naturally want to share
it as well, realizing that as we give
out of our energy, we make space for more to flow into us.
When, through insecurity (fear) and a feeling that there "isn't
enough," we try to hold onto or cling to what we have, we begin to cut off
this wonderful flow of energy. In hanging onto what we have, we fail to
keep the energy moving and we don't make space for new energy to come to
Energy takes many forms, such as love, affection, appreciation and
recognition, material possessions, money, friendship, etc. and the
principles apply equally to all these forms.
If you look around you at those who are most unhappy, you'll find they
are often people who have a "starved" feeling in some way, and are
therefore in a very grasping posture toward life. They feel that life in
general and other people in particular are not giving them what they need.
It is as if they have a stranglehold on life, trying desperately to wring
out the love and satisfaction they crave, yet actually choking off the
supply. And many of us have a little of this tendency.
When we find that place within ourselves that is giving, we begin to
reverse the flow. Giving happens not from a space of sacrifice, or
self-righteousness, or an idea of spirituality, but for the pure
of it - because it's fun. It can only come from a full,
We each have an infinite supply of love and happiness within us. We
have been accustomed to thinking that we have to get something from
outside us in order to learn to contact our inner source of happiness and
satisfaction and flow it outward to share with others - not because it is
virtuous to do so, but because it feels really good! Once we tune into it
we just naturally want to share it because that is the essential nature of
love, and we are all loving beings.
As we outflow our loving energy, we make room for more to flow into us.
We soon discover that this process feels so good in itself we just want to
do it more and more. And the more you share of yourself from this space,
the more you seem to get from the world, because the of the outflow-inflow
principle. (Nature abhors a vacuum, so as you outflow you create space
into which something must inflow.) Giving becomes its own reward.
When we fully understand and live this we have manifested our innately
So you will find in your use of creative visualization, that the more
basically "giving" orientation you have to life, the easier it will be to
fulfill your dreams... but remember always that you can't continue to give
unless you are equally open to receiving... and that "giving" also means
giving to yourself...
When it comes to outflowing, practice makes perfect. You must
consciously practice it in order to get the experience of how good it
feels. Here are some exercises in outflowing you can try if you need some
expansion in this area:
- Make a point to express more appreciation to others in as many ways
as you can think of. Sit down right now and make a list of people to
whom you would like to outflow love and appreciation, and think of a way
you can do so to each one within the next week. Outflow can take the
form of words, touching, a gift, a phone call or letter, money, or any
sharing of your talents that makes another person feel good. Choose
something that makes you feel especially good too, even if it's a little
more difficult for you.
Practice speaking more words of thanks, appreciation and admiration
to people when you feel like it. "It was kind of you to help me." "I
want you to know that I appreciate that."
- Go through your things and find things that you don't really want or
use very often and give them to others who will appreciate them more.
- If you're a person who tries to spend as little money as possible
and always hunts for a bargain, try spending a little money each day
unnecessarily. Buy the product that costs a few cents more instead of
less, treat yourslef to a little something extra, pay for a friend's
coffee, donate to a good cause, etc. Even a small action of this sort is
a visible demonstration to yourself that you have faith in the abundance
that you have been affirming. Actions speak as loud as words in this
- Tithe your income. Tithing is the practice of giving a percentage of
your income to a church, spiritual organization, or any group that you
feel is making a worthwhile contribution in the world. It is a way of
supporting that energy, and at the same time acknowledging that all you
receive comes from the universe and therefore you give a token back to
the universal source. It doesn't matter what the percentage is - even
tithing just one percent of your income will give you a continuous
experience of outflowing. Just be sure to do it regularly.
- Be creative. Think of other ways to outflow your energy into the
universe for the good of yourself and others.